Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Marry Him If You Dare - Ending Review

What I thought about it……

I spent till dawn watching Marry Him If You Dare.  

At first I had really no interest watching it but I’m dying waiting for the new episode of Healer that I decided to watch something. I had lots of movies, animes and dramas in my hard drive and in those hundreds of folders, it caught my attention.

I really enjoy it and if you love romantic comedy and Korean drama with love triangle then you’ll definitely enjoy it too. Yeah, I know. There are many negative comments saying it’s just a waste of time or the actors didn’t do a good a job. It’s not for them to decide what you thought. It’s for you. Don’t be that person that judges something before they even got to know it. I read somewhere before that you’ll know you’ll enjoy a series after watching up to three episodes. If you really don’t like it till then, then drop it and don’t waste your time.

I am not writing it defend the series. I really am just disappointed with the feedback. Everyone has their own taste anyway.

What I can say about the ending……

This is where most the negative feedback is about. Everyone is saying that they are confused or the ending really sucks. Some are saying that the writer did a lazy job and there are many flaws and unresolved issues.

Well even I, are a bit confused.
But I don’t think the ending sucks.

It just ended in a one of many possibilities.

(I am warning you now.there might be some spoilers ahead)

The ending is an open one. They didn’t tell who she end up with.
There. The shocking truth is out.

But before you judge it I tell you this. I am satisfied with her choice.

I know the title of episode 16 said Mi-rae’s Choice but she didn’t choose either of the leading man. I would do that too, because everyone is wrong. She already made a choice.

She chose herself. 

She needed that, needed to let go the two of them and even her brother because all this time she’s just depending on them even though she kept repeating that she’ll not be like that. It was the turning point that differ from her future self’s choice because in that future world, she immediately got married. I don’t think their self back there is matured enough for stuff like that and that’s why it ended badly.

I’ll tell you this. This series has really many flows and unresolved issue. And I still like it.

And I bet even Se-Joo and Seo Kyung’s marriage didn’t turn out that well because Se Joo definitely has some fixing to do with his obsession and with the stuffs going on around him as a chaebol. Don’t get me wrong I love him here and I like Seo Kyung also. But I don’t ship them because Seo Kyung didn’t deserve him. She’s the only character here that acts maturely. And I like her better with Kim Shin. They are both mature enough to let go the person they love for their happiness. 

And this is really where everyone got confused.

Who did Mi-rae really end up with?

The writer didn’t tell us because they want us to choose the ending. That’s how I viewed it and as a writer, I often thought of ending love triangles like that too. It’s really hard to choose between two deserving person and I don’t want to disappoint the other party by choosing the other one.

But sad to say this..Seo Joo definitely is the one she ends up with. Why??

·        * They meet first ok I know it has nothing to do with her feelings but still I think fate brought them together. The future Mirae didn’t do anything for Seo Joo to fall for her. It was on his own.

·        * There are more scenes of them together I’ll fight everyone who will say they don’t fit. They do! Can’t anyone see the love vibes whenever they are together? And frankly I don’t see that romantic feeling between Mirae and Kim Shin except whenever the other is jealous.

·       * She didn’t break up with Seo Joo even though his mother threatened her- if she really loves Kim Shin she would break up with Seo Joo when his mother told her she will end his career. That's also where I can tell that she might already be falling for Seo Joo.

·       * She still has the ring she said she will become a better person for Seo Joo, right? Plus she ended it cleanly with Kim Shin. I know saying that she might date him after he paid off his debt, still, why didn’t they continually meet on those three years? If she really loves him she will come running back to him in spite of everything.

·        *The day on December 24 so who do you think she saw first? It was definitely Seo Joo because she only smiles like that whenever when she’s with him. Have you ever noticed that she smiles more around Seo Joo?

·      * Lastly the picture of her son that’s definitely not Gun. And he looked like Seo Joo :3 




Sorry guys I’m pro Seo Joo because I think they just fit each other like a puzzle.

This is an open ending so you can still hope that she ended up with Kim Shin if you're pro him or she can end up with neither of them too. This is why open ending is fun, you can imagine many possibilities.

24 comments:

  1. I agree with you. I hope mirae with se joo... kkkkk

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  2. I just finish ep 16. And i agree with you. I repeated the last ep 4 time and from the last pic, i notice the gold pictures and gold wall triming. It look like See joo office.

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  3. Omg! I really hope she choose see joo. They fit together.

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  4. I am agree with you, mirae ended with see joo, off course! She smile like that because they split three years Korea - US , and finally can meet each other. Shin stayed in Korea, why mirae after 3 years didn't married yet, because mairae and shin now just a friend

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  5. I agree with you! but i thinks that baby is the brother's son in photos

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  6. I totally agree! Not only that she only smiles like that to Se Joo, that kind of smile also say that she hasn't seen that person in front of her for a long time, and Se Joo was the one away from the Country for 3 years.

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    1. Yeah , true, even to her kim shin face very familliar, because of news

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  7. I too believe the same thing.She goes back into the bookstore after Se Joo goes in (coming back a day earlier).Also,she tells his mom, who asked her to break up with him,that she can't change her heart just like that.She gave him the ring back while asking him to wait for her and asked future Mi Rae to go back to "her" Kim Shin.The whole thing changed from the moment of the accident.

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  8. I too believe it's See joo! The ending was quite clear, you just had to read in between the lines. As many of you have mentioned the hints already, I totally agree with you all. And yes, the baby in the picture is her nephew. Also because brother says "you treat him like your own son". This was a beautiful K-drama and I really enjoyed it.

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  9. I too agree that she will end up with se-joo, because in the beginning also they both were together and se- joo was the one who told her that her preview was nice and she should work a little harder also he supported her writing the story by doing her previews ,and none of these were planned by future mirae,so their destiny has been changed when she didn't get in the accident and went to jejudo.And yes if she still had feelings for Kim shin she would've break up with se joo but she didn't do that also she said that she wants to support se joo and if he still has feelings for her after coming back she asked him to put the ring that means she wanted to wait for him and she ended all things with Kim shin.So I think mirae will end up with se joo and I really liked the series.

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  10. Actually I'm a little bit upset of how the ending ends. My heart aches a lot when I saw the flew of the ending. And for me, I'm admirer of the love story of NA-MI RAE & KIM SHIN. I'm crying till the and it doesn't fulfill my satisfaction. The mere fact they are couple back then, I feel sorry for them both. And now I realize not all good couples makes a happy ever after story. I'm satisfied but a little bit disappointed. But congratulations for making this drama. I'm a big fan of Yoon Eun-Hye. although its too late that I've watch this but it makes me happy.

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  11. It makes sense thinking that she choose se-ju,apart from that there was a scene showing a lady opening the box and finding some pics.the kid was his nephew then who was the guy in those pics?future mirae already got very old in pasr,when did she return to past again? And most of all who was the person who held her hand when future Marae was going through the photos?😟

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  12. It was on December 24 when see joo and mi Rae spent a happy day while Kim shin broke her heart that day. The book was released on dec 24 so she will choose see joo

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  13. I don't get to watch the last episode, since it was deleted all because of the negative comments. I wanted to visualize those too.. poor me!!

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  14. I'm Rooting Se joo from the very beginning, So For me it's Se joo that Mi rei chose :)

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  15. With all my confusion to the extent that I went back to the last scene where the Pandora's Box has been opened 10 times, I came into conclusion that though the drama has a lot of unresolved issues I would rather focus on the purpose of the writer to give us the ending that we will be happy and will be based from our own analysis. This has been releases few years back and I just happened to view it now; I agree with this review,it should be
    SeeJoo and Mirae from the last episode's point of view.

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  16. I definitely agree with everything that ypu said. AAAAA. I REALLY CAN'T HOW I FEEL ABOUT THIS DRAMA, I JUST LOVE IT SO MUCH! SEJOO AND MIRAE FOREVER!

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  17. I agree she chose SeeJoo. However I believe she regrets not choosing KimShin (she’s going back to the future to be at KimShin side and tell him she’s sorry)?

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  18. yeshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh <3 team Mirae and Seo Joo!!

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  19. To me also feel like Se Joo is the partner, from the begininh she didnt take her car to 3rd line, but she is take her car to that 3rd line , and soon as accident happened, but not with her but with other lady.. then future fate is change..and going Jeju Island not a plan of past Na Mi re...

    Even past Na mi re wanted to try water things with Se Jo, but Se Joo all ready see her in sea and even save her..

    And also all the things went good, future is happy. I think her brother dead in her past life because of cancer, however she change it in this lif.. and NTN debt , and even she become writer as past Na Mire wanted...


    Soo SeJo said he want to eduacate, he is doing it for Na Mire, and Na mire started to loving him aftrr he came to her house,
    And that SeJo'S graduated film, she is saying she can see that man in film is celibrity but alone and pain, in the last episode i felt that is SeJoo... so she want to stand by his side..
    And even after meet Kimshin , she said him that she dont want to stand by his side, cause people are supporting ,

    And finally, Na Mire didnt want show past Na mire with whom she endup..

    Cause definitely it's not past Nami re 's love. But she want tell her that she has a baby and living happily.

    And did you catch, her brother baby's name Gun. That past Namire baby's Name..

    Not only Namire, once se joo saying to key sung ,if he want something until the end he is trying...

    And even Sea kyung what happened if he met her before Namire... but to Se Joo Na mire is the first met person..

    If story end up with Kimshin, why Se Joo coming the exact date december 24th after 3 years,

    She could met Kimshin previous year 24th december



    So the story is giving many evidence that this present time .

    Yes in the end they are showing kimshins hand, cause that future Na mire is ,and kimshin live happy .....that the people who are in their name not actually they are.

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  20. I dont agree she ends up with Jee so. I know Jee so is a good person but Na Mi Rae always consider he is just a friend. Seem like not fair to Kim Shin cos he had done to Mi Rae he wants to protect her and prevent the bad future. Reason that they dont meet for three years cos Kim Shin has to pay all his debt first so that he can date her. Did you notice that Mi Rae said, I have a plan and Kim Shin also stated I have a plan too. She has Jee Ring but she didnt wear it. She mentioned a long term friend return (I believe that Jee so has return from study oversee) a called from a lover who lost touch (I believe that Kim Shin is still her lover but they lost touch about three years). I know they have a lot of scense with Jee so but all the scense are just friend. When she has scense together Kim Shin, they are not friend. They are in love and the way she looks to Kim Shin is difference from the way she looks to Jee so.

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